The Most Raw Dating
Show in Existence

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Brandon and Harrison posing for a picture with their hands folded on a table.


What's UpDating?

UPDATING is the edgy, thrilling, and hilarious dating reality show! Each week, two singles are set up on a blind date in front of a live audience, and what follows is a hilariously raw and unfiltered look at modern romance in real time with real people (and on social media). Reality TV unfolding live infused with comedy & satire!

Audiences laugh, cringe, and always relate to the high-octane unedited adventures of the variety of daters gracing its stage! The show has quickly become a top attraction at its home base in New York City, at sold out tour stops around the country, and of course, on social media!

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The Numbers Don't Lie

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Upcoming Shows

Curious what all the hype is about? Stop by and see a show for yourself.


December 10, 2022
City Winery

New York City (SOLD OUT)

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December 10, 2022
Kobrick - HUD After Hours

New York City (SOLD OUT)

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December 31, 2022
City Winery

New York City

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Look Behind the Curtain

The experience doesn't stop when you leave your seat. Check out behind-the-scenes content, guest dater profiles, updates from the UpDating team and much more..


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Pictures of two blind daters sitting on stage talking. Brandon and Harrison in the greenroom smiling before a show.

What People Are Saying

Look, we love our show, but other folks do as well. Don't take it from us, read what everyone is saying!


your guys' show is the most entertaining thing I've seen on tiktok
I love what ya'll are doing - You have made my day and I can't wait to wait everyday for the tiktoks and ig post
Just moved to LA from Australia, I need you guys to come here so I can get on one of your shows
when is @nextflix going to pick this up as a reality show! I foresee this coming summer of '23! let's go!
One of the few things I look forward to everyday, is to learn the latest developments in @updatingshow. We need a Netflix original guys. The drama is so good 😭

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